Unseen Scars: How Early Emotional Trauma Shapes Our Physical Health
From the earliest moments of life, the quality of love and bonding we receive as young children from ages 0 to 3 plays a critical role in our future well-being. When this early environment is shaped by emotionally immature, unavailable, or narcissistic caregivers, the impact can extend far beyond our emotional health, manifesting as physical illness in later life.
The Bullsh*t Way Girls Are Raised Can Literally Make Us Sick
Here’s a problematic truth: the way boys and girls are raised from a young age is vastly lopsided. Look at how it plays out - little boys get all the kudos and positive reinforcement for what they do. "Wow, you climbed that structure like a monkey!" or "Nice work, that tower of blocks is epic!" But girls? We get complimented on how we are, not what we do. "Aw, don't you look pretty today?" or "Such a sweet little smile!"…
Healing Yourself With the Power of Your Heart
There’s really only one cause for almost all modern illnesses and your doctor often isn’t even aware of it. In fact, the diagnoses we get from our doctors are actually the symptoms of disease, not the cause…
The Simple Shift That Freed My Client from Decades of Asthma
The intricate link between mind and body reveals itself in myriad ways. As a medical intuitive, I've witnessed this connection manifest through my clients' physical ailments, which often reflect unresolved emotional conflicts. One such example involves a client who...
How to Manage the Winter Blues
A few years ago, I moved from the sunny beaches of Southern California to the cool forests of the Pacific Northwest. I know most of you will think that’s crazy, but I’ve found I do better in cooler environments.. Plus I loooove all the plants, water and greenery here…
From Worry to Well-being: Unpacking the Digestive Connection
In various healing traditions, it's believed that different parts of our body correspond to diverse emotional states. From the harmonious balance of the Yin and Yang in Chinese medicine to the holistic equilibrium of the three Doshas in Ayurvedic tradition, these...
Three paths to greater health that doctors don’t acknowledge
There is mounting research showing the massive effect on our health of a well-balanced psychosocial ecosystem. A psychosocial ecosystem includes things like our roles, our social connections, and our daily routines. If we are feeling stress or imbalance in any of...
How To Find Your Inner Caregiver
Earlier this week, a video made the rounds on TikTok of Lillie, a 13-year-old getting arrested at an abortion rights protest because she used a megaphone and violated a noise ordinance. The video made a splash not only for the fact the police are arresting...
Why I disagree with the “self-acceptance” movement
I’ve been outlining the chapter in my book on mindfulness and self-acceptance (Did I mention I’m writing a book?!) and it occurred to me that many people have the wrong idea of what acceptance and self-acceptance really mean. I hear people say all the time, “I should...
What's the missing piece for healing your developmental trauma?
Let’s talk about what’s missing for many people as they recover from their childhood trauma. For me, doing the typical emotional and physical healing work alone was not enough. When I finally added spiritual awakening to the process, I went from being a hot mess of...
How do I tell if it's trauma anger or healthy anger?
It’s been an angry week for me (both feeling my own anger and being on the receiving end of someone else’s) and I’ve been thinking a lot about the two types of anger, healthy anger and trauma response anger. Let’s look at ‘em, shall we? Healthy anger moves you...
Why it’s hard to ask for help
Hi My Friends -- This week, I’ve been practicing relying on others and asking for help. This is a particular challenge for me as I’ve always been one of those people who thinks, “Oh, it’s just easier if I do it myself.” I realized recently that the reflex to “just do...
Feel like you’re on an emotional rollercoaster lately? I think I may know why.
Notes on the Pandemic: I was driving home from a hike with my dog the other day when the anxiety hit. I had just spent an hour hiking on a beautiful trail by the ocean, listening to an audiobook, and feeling pretty damn good. But as I got in my car and drove home, I...
Conversations with Megan Caper and guest Alison Morris
Join me as I talk to Alison Morris about emotions, spiritual growth, neurology and more!